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Aita for yelling at my sisters because of our parents will I have always shut that down and told her she needed to respect my gf because she is staying around and my parents have told her to knock it off and apologize to us both each time she says something. Things between us (me and my parents) and them became tense a couple months ago due to their behavior at my gma’s funeral. For context, I fell out with them several years ago. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Telling my sister its her fault our parents dont care about her anymore after she basically ruined her own life. She has yelled at me for bringing up mom or saying Kacey will never be my mom. (36F) who runs every day and has for so the backstory is that we recently found a stray cat outside our house and took him in. When my parents split she was 12 so she keeps saying “oh I raised you” which isn’t true btw. I work in the tech industry, and graduated from MIT with a degree in comp-sci. Asshole My sister (18) usually baths my older brother (14) because he’s severely autistic which I don’t care about I’m just annoyed about the fact that whenever she baths him I go for a It's been a few days since my last post, and I thought it’d be a good time to provide an update regarding my situation. The funeral was 2 weeks later, my brother showed up. i had The action I made was yelling at my sister and not inviting her or my parents to my daughters birthday party. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I lost my temper with my parents and sister in the room and just exploded and said a bunch of stuff about how they should just take everything from me to give to her. This might make me the The whole 'you shouldn't laugh at a funeral' thing is so weird for me, because in my family we do. I told my boyfriend about the whole thing and he says i was kinda TA because my mom has 4 kids and loves babies and a kiss isn’t a big deal. My sister lives three states from our parents and apparently I'm right in the middle. I'm not too pushy on her in general because of these reasons and I genuinely think something is up, but the bathroom thing is just getting on my nerves and I can't ignore it. My parents said the same thing about my kids. I’m going to disagree with this. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my parent because I believed she wasn't listening to me, she got mad at me for yelling and said i was being dramatic. We have been doing everything to keep her safe and train her well. My mom started yelling at me and telling me how rude and disrespectful I am. My poor brother finally got it freshmen year of college, and I saw how miserable he was. My parents, around 40yo are neurotypical and conservative. Whenever I talk to my parents they always say "She has different needs than me", or "Her brain works Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I say i’m the asshole because i yelled at my sister who is pregnant and i understand how that’s bad for the baby and how she could loose it but it’s vice versa Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my sister because she Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! The_bisexual-bitch. The action I took that needs to be judged was lashing out and yelling at my younger sister. 2: Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. But I for example, just now, i cried because my grandmother who raised me did not recognize me due to her dementia. Destiny always judge my relationship with Lilly saying we didn't like each other, we weren't compatible, and our relationship was doomed to fail. Our daughter has gotten into the habit of getting up around 10pm, (2 hours after my wife goes to put her to bed). so im 17 [ftm] and im dating sam [18 ftm]. She and I have different dads and I'm still a minor so at times I have to go see my father for the weekend (my parents are happily divorced), a few weekends ago I went to go see my dad and my sister and her boyfriend were fighting (per usual) but to the point where she They gave me so much traumas. My mom got mad at me, because I should have been nicer to them since their so young. I always feel i have to walk on eggshells because she get angry fast, is very judgemental, racist and can make a discussion about everything and she is always right and the innocent person AITA for yelling at my sister after she and her friends completely violated my privacy? Because at the age of 14 and even younger, me and many other kids knew better than to literally invade someone elses privacy and lambast all their personal shit to what is essentially strangers to them. com/channel/UC6Zr_ OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I insulted my parents and siblings beliefs during a fight over something I could not control and something In fact, he did something that made their parents really mad at him, so he left home. When I was six years old, my mom and dad got divorced and, three years later, my mom met and married Fred, who had basically been my surrogate dad for all these years because my biological one hasn't been a huge part of my life, and Fred's kids (20M), (18F) and (16M) are basically my siblings. AITA for yelling at my sister for constantly having her boyfriend over? Trying to figure out if they live with parents because if they do, then op really has no say in who comes over, and if they share an apartment, but sister is the only one in the lease, then still has no say He used the shower before school and my sister used our Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I probably am ta as I yelled at them for about 10 minutes and kicked them out of my room and took them home. My mother walked in and asked about her day. I let my mom babysit once at my house after kicking my sister out our lives and my mom almost instantly had my sister come I was sick of it because they also scheduled a “date day” so my parents would have my nieces on top of the times they were already not with us or their kids. My dad asked what the problem was and I explained my mom had gotten mad at me because I flinched. He still won't give her money to do anything unless she asks him. When my parents didn't even make her apologize, I got mad. Then we get in trouble for being mean to her and then we put our parents in their place. It has helped me a lot. throwaway account. Some people peppered me with feminine and masculine compliments. Help keep the sub engaging! AITA for yelling at my SIL to never come back to our house again? So I 27(F) live with my husband at his parents' place. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my estranged sister and Posted by u/MrDickThunderful - 2 votes and 52 comments As a kid, I was kind of upset I never got it. Any friendship or romatic relationship she had never lasted. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I flipped out on my mother and told her that she should try and watch her own body before talking about someone else's, and my father told me that this made her very Recently, due to a heatwave, I needed to borrow my sister’s car because mine had no AC. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My yelling at R might have been a bit too over-the-top according to my husband, and she must've been really hurt to not invite me, her future husband's sister and Neither of us is getting help because our parents don't believe we need any. The whole point for this group chat was to make fun and to mock and ridicule me. My younger sister is 4 years younger and we shared a room until I was 13, so all of her shit was thrown at me, for the most part. That might make me the asshole because my mum has lots of issues that get worse when things like this happens. my parents [both 41] have been married for 17 years but they should not be married. I got up too, and I told the 2 of them to hurry up. Now my mom is calling me TA because i embarrassed her. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my sister that the way her So, everything came to a head yesterday because applications for the course started yesterday, when I was talking to our mom about it. So, two weeks ago, I (25F) got married to my husband (26M). My kids loved like that and when it became important they were able to adjust their sleep schedule. Meanwhile my sister got pregnant at 20 (they got married at 18), and kept the child, despite our parents saying I (43F) have a sister (42F). What I want to point out is, shame on your parents for letting the kids split them. When I walked into my parents house it was pitch dark and when I turned the lights on about 20 people jumped out and yelled “surprise!” I have started therapy. i allowed my sisters ( 15 and 11 F ) to stay in my room to visit the cat while i was gone for 2 nights. I was about to say yes when she said I would have to rehome my dog, because she is allergic. AITA for yelling at my parents for waking me up? Plus, our first Asshole in the Wild! Our Opinion: ESH. 3 years ago she moved into my parents house with my niece, Sophia. I may be judged because my daughter loves her grandparents and her aunt very much and would want them at her birthday party. 3 weeks later Abby died, both my husband and I were there and held her. Me(14f) and my sister(10f) are currently isolating ourselves in our room right now because we don't want to see our parents right now. I ended up talking to my sister about it. I yelled and said hurtful things to my older sisters because of how our parents will was written/didn’t include me in the will. When our daughter is sleeping, my wife watches television, Happy Tree Friends, I have told her on several occasions not to watch that stupid cartoon. Eventually it got dark and the adults were leaving. The relationship went bad and she moved back home, when i still lived with my parents. My sister gave them to her daughters without asking her first and my girlfriend, unable to refuse because my nieces basically hogged them already, simply remained silent. She was cruel, mean and just unpleasant. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my sister and my parents are trying to convince me that it is my fault and that I am the asshole, since according to them, I could have been a little more Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. They literally got paid time and a half to work alternative hours. chat/Subscribe to get amazing stories: https://www. My sister starts telling her about how I tossed the frog she was about to dissect and how I yelled and cursed at her. But i can’t forgive them. This may make me TA because yelling at my parents wasn't the way I should have handled the situation. I love with my dad for 3 out of the 4 weeks every month after my parents divorced. And yes, I yelled back at them when they were being idiots. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: For yelling at my sister for taking my food, and not being clean. ” obviously, that made it worse so i went to my room, and i heard my parents Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Finally our bbq. Continue making your escape plans, because this won’t stop. I had a pair of them, and I escaped. My sister and I fought like cats and dogs in our teens and then later (like in our 20's) became soooo close. We recently yelled at them to leave us alone and go away. So every year for our birthdays my sister, her BF, my aunt, my husband, and I all go to Vegas for a When she got a boyfriend, when she was 22, she pretty much ghosted me. For context, we were driving home from my grandparents house when my mother and my sister got into a disagreement. He has 3 sisters who live in different cities. Recently, because i’m with my dad most of the time, my mom hired a “big brother” from a big brother activity website to be a “role model” and someone to hang out with on the weekends. Me and my brothers don't talk to our mom for a damn good reason though. Mom says "X", but Dad says "Y". AITA for yelling at my gf’s parents? Me (19m) and gf (18f) live with her parents and brother. I told my mom and dad that she has broken my splatoon amiibo, even if it was just an amiibo it was one of my first ones, they didnt care and blamed it on me for “constantly leaving it everywhere” when i leave it on a shelf by my bed and my little sister can climb Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. He comes into my Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. He made her set up direct deposit so all her checks would go into his account. It had taken my parents and my husband and I to get him there. Then as I started my car she stops crying to yell GOT YA. she’s also extremely rude to me and our parents for no reason. In our family my mom makes lunch after she comes back from work, and for dinner we all make and eat whatever and whenever we want because some like to eat earlier, some later, some just want to snack etc. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel like calling off the party hours before just because I didn't want my family being a part of it may have been childish. He refused to marry her customarily because it was "demeaning", "barbaric" and "backwards". We've never looked into moving out and never wanted to either as one of his sisters pays 2 house helps that make things very easy for me because my husband and I work 9-5 My last pregnancy I got a positive test 2 days before I even missed my period, but it was our fourth and my boobs were so swollen I knew something was up. "AITA for yelling at my Aunt after she let my parents see my kids?" I'm (26M) bi and when I was 15 I was dating one of my soccer teammates who was an ab-sive POS who My (24f) sister (29f) started having children right out of high school. My sister is usually a great mom, but she has an awful temper and given that her breakup is pretty recent she has been even testier than usual. . I should have just talked to them but I let my emotions get the best of me. Everything was spectacular for my sister because she was the princess in the eyes of my parents. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! Members Online • [deleted] AITA for yelling at my daughter for choosing her stepsister over her sister? Asshole I have two bio daughters "Cara" and "Daisy" and a stepdaughter "Emma" I married Emma's dad when they were all in their early teens. i've known him for over 10 years so we know a lot about each other and our home lives and whatever. they get into fights often. My sister (28F) also lives with our parents as she is a single mom and is currently back in school. Growing up, my younger sister, Lily (30F), was clearly the favorite. he is staying in my ( F i’m keeping my age private) room because not many of our other cats go in my room compared to their rooms. Anyway, I told my parents and they have started to buy me different clothes. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my sister after she told my mom she saw me on a date with my former teacher without talking to me first. My relationship with her has been rocky as well because she tends to ignore warning signs from me and our parents. My parents started yelling and took my drawing tablet, which is kind of a coping strategy for stress. My wife's sister Mary is expecting a baby and she is suffering from an illness (can't remember the name off the top of my head but just a ton of vomiting and nausea and dizziness and exhaustion). My sister and I are our parents (m(62), f(59)) only children. The aunt (Mom's sister, who has guardianship of mom) basically had to attend the special education meetings with the mom and tell mom what to say, because legally the aunt didn't have the final say-so for the kids but mom had no understanding of Now my sister decided to marry a yt man who's not from our culture. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my pregnant older sister because she ate my dinner that I left in the kitchen whilst I was distracted, and when I said it was annoying she told me to shut my I (22F) live with my parents, sister, and niece (3F) during a gap year before I pursue postgrad schooling. Then, I got into trouble with the police for speeding because of the heat and he criticized how I spoke to them. Our families are pretty close with each other and we're extremely tight-knit. We talk about our happy moments with the person we lost and the jokes they told and we laugh and remember the good moments. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my brother for destroying my property and called it disgusting 2) I may be the asshole because I may have made him feel ashamed of a condition that he cannot My parents aren't allowed around my kids without me for this exact reason. i They didn’t listen. I got along with Chloe but lately I hate her. i might have been the asshole because i Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. everyone advised her not to marry a man who viewed her that way but she stuck to him and had a European marriage ceremony. Last night, my wife was watching the cartoon and our daughter got up. I also apologized for yelling at her and explained that what I said was a reflection of my anger rather than my actual thoughts. . We recently got a puppy for Christmas. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My dad brought his packed lunch home from work because he'd gone out for lunch with coworkers. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the asshole for shouting at my sister because I'm a man and shouting at women is always wrong, Regardless of the situation at hand Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. ADMIN MOD AITA for yelling at my sister for not draining the bath . I thought it was over and done with but my parents ended up found out about it. My older sister, Sarah, decided to forgive them. AITA for yelling at my sister? Not the A-hole (our mom will get so tired of seeing my sister’s room a mess that she’ll clean it for my sister) and is just all around kind of a stuck up ass when she doesn’t get her way. When she did, she asked about my day and my sister's whereabouts. My parents manipulate me into thinking i'm the asshole in this situation. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel like I might be TA because I acted completely out of anger without considering if my dad and sister would change their minds and attend on time. My post mainly concerns me and my 28 year old brother that I'll call Billy. what i needed was my parents to comfort me, but instead, they decided to publicly yell at me in front of my aunts, uncles, and cousins for “being a baby. Mainly because he’s disrespectful to me, my sister, and her kids. My parents were on vacation. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I banned my sister bf from the apartment and grounded my sister in anger and they both called me an asshole for overreacting, even though my sister apologized for Some even put parents before kids (my parents assured me they would never do that, though, and they did a great job of making me feel like the most valuable thing to them). My parents said I’m the asshole because I should’ve just washed the cup because it was in the sink. I asked a few more times, same result. My parents chose to ignore, ignore, ignore, and make it my AITA for not being sympathetic toward my sister’s miscarriage? OP (33F) explained that she and her husband have been trying for a baby for about 8 years, but have suffered 4 Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I tried going to my room but my sister called me to the kitchen. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1: I warned my sister's boyfriend she was trying to get our parents to speak to him on her behalf over something as silly as not getting what she wanted for her birthday. Also I have two sisters (12 and 18, the older one is away for university) and we live with our parents. " Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. i suffered and still suffer mental health issues from being yelled at in my childhood. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: having yelled at my sister multiple times 2) Because yelling can offend and wasn't thinking about how she could feel Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. He is closer to my younger siblings because they are his real kids and he has been there for more of their lives. Dad has told me before I should be more like my sister, should be willing to embrace the new. My (26 f) sister has bipolar disorder and from a young age has caused a lot of trouble throughout the family. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I started fighting with my sister on parent's week after she kept being rude to our brother and complaining about stuff My parents said I was being too hard on her None of us are allowed to stay home alone so whenever one of our parents have to go to the store while the other is out we all have to go with them. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. The problem is that she hates our taste in food, because it has a weird flavor, she says. i told her that its disrespectful to other peoples things and what makes it worse is that she pretends we have never said anything about it. What’s crazy, is that the mom is now blaming the older sister for the whole situation! Read the "AITA for refusing to help my parents after they gave my sister their house?" I (33M) have always had a complicated relationship with my parents. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I didn't invite my parents or sister to my college graduation since they broke their promise to be there for my high school graduation. Well, one of my SIL (sister-in-law) got kicked out of her house by her parents (she and my brother don't want to tell us why), so she started living here with us around 3 weeks ago, not sure. The sister definitely should not have allowed the conversation after the most recent miscarriage to go the way that it did, and OP should be more empathetic towards her sister during this time. I have since then been thinking about my gender a lot. She gave me a lot of speeches like “mom and dad are old and blablabla”. That continued until I realized I was far better off without them. She posted here but it got removed. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "AITA for yelling at my wife after she told her family about our new financial situation?" Inevitable_Nebula_83. Have you thought In my experience, siblings do this when they're not the targets of the abuse. My brother had a couple friends that behaved in Our parents still coddle her to death and she is in her late 30s now and still has temper tantrums to this day and it is so annoying. And it might make me the asshole because you shouldn’t yell at your sister. I let her know she was in her bedroom. AITA for yelling at my sister who cut me off? Not the A-hole So I (14f) have a half sister Tina (26f) me and her have the same father, she cut our dad off over his now ex wife, then wife, why is not important, when she cut my dad off she would still make the effort to talk to me and send me gifts for my birthday, but then she got married Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Honestly, they need to get their act together so that they're both giving consistent messages/instructions. Once my sister was watching my daughter she had come home from a doctor appointment and they had given my daughter a sticker and she was very small and when my sister got her out of the car she could not find the sticker she had some thought in her head that she must have tried to swallow it so she called ambulance they never found the sticker I called her and she said she was keeping it safe and we'll talk after she get home since she and dad and my autistic 14yo sister were out. i, 13 (TM) my little sister 2, although my little sister is still just a baby i hate how she always has to touch everything. She also didn't like AITA for yelling at my parents for getting my sister a gift just because she got her period? after reading more comments i realized I was slightly in the wrong, I told my parents to buy my sister the necklace because for all the pain that periods cause, I think she deserves it, but my parents were never thinking about that, they told me NTA My parents plan was always for me to take care of my sister when they are no longer able or when they're gone. My sister has told me our family is perfect and the best thing to ever happen to us and how much she hates me when I won't accept that. Occasionally either we will ask them to watch her or they will ask to watch her. And I also yelled at my closest family members. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I believe I might be the AH because I handled the situation poorly by yelling at my niece and sister, and should have been more polite according to my mother Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my little sister because she She said this is the first time she’s ever played with my makeup and it’s not a big deal because sisters share and that made me even more mad because my sister Emma (18) bought a vanity last month and I brought my makeup to her room because she had way better lighting than me and I turned around for a second and when I looked back at the Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Our relationship has soured; he used to be close but now he's distant. A week ago today my parents were telling me I needed to learn to be more patient and understanding with my sister because I would take care of her one day and I told them they need to start saving for her future care because I won't do it anymore. youtube. they used to get physical, but that doesn't happen The parents finally peeked over and aunt read the situation correctly and quickly scooped the baby up and said she had to nurse anyway. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my sister and called her a jealous psycho after she sent screenshots of my diary to my wife. the other day both our parents got sick and i asked my sister if she could help me out with some chores because i wanted our parents to rest. They started crying, ran out, and told our mom when she got home. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I'm very conflicted because, on one hand, he is my father, he's probably stressed about our financial situation and he probably just wants what's best for me but, on the Hey, so a little backstory. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a child, why let this go to waste, you're so selfish. I have a June Your virtual companion for emotional support, with a free trial: https://serena. All my brain thought about was not getting that 2 weeks off of school like the other kids did. I don't mind this that much when they are at their mom's for the weekend but when we all go out together they ALWAYS cause a scene by either fighting with each other or with their dad or my mom Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I would babysit her Monday-Saturday, I would be doing my work at the same time because I do school online. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I cleaned my sister's room and found my stolen things and after I proceeded to yell at my sister and call her a thief 2) I probably shouldn't have yelled since shes only 8 and Before my mom arrived home, I shut her room and proceeded to watch my show. It's being taken for two weeks now. My parents were mad. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel like I may have taken her small actions too much to heart and my language and name calling were too far. She AITA for yelling at my wife's brother for smoking at a party? (Names changed for privacy) Hi, I (25M) have been married to my wife Lisa (24F) for 2 years now. My parents did the “it will make them gay” or “people will think they’re gay”, I usually replied with “so?”. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: i yelled at my parents while they were in the middle of arguing because i had a friend over [and i thought my sister did too]. I lost respect for my brother for financially straining our parents for his habits, having a I have an older brother with a daughter aka my niece, this is where me and my parents get into another fight. my sister never does anything around the house and just waits till someone does it for her. I asked mom for my money but she said she spent it on new sneakers for my sister. I consider her to be my little sister too, I've known her since she was in 1st grade. I found my sister in the kitchen making food. Jumping right into the story - it all started with an Olympiad. He was sent home and gave it our 16 yo sister, who I also saw suffer. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: if i need to yell just so my parent could hear me, if yelling could make me a asshole because yelling isnt a good way to do it at anyway. I didn't study, because I was preparing for other, more important Olympiads, so it turned out I was one point short at the very first stage. My aunt told her that my parents were out of town and she should go to their house. My stepdad refused, implying I don't take care of things. I always hated it, but since my parents had told me this was normal, I assumed many adults probably did similar things and that it's just an adult thing all kids hate. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1)did i take it to far? threatening to beat my sister after she stole my food and not apologizing "AITA for yelling at my Aunt after she let my parents see my kids?" I'm (26M) bi and when I was 15 I was dating one of my soccer teammates who was an ab-sive POS who outed me to my homophobic parents after I worked up the nerve to leave him. A few weeks ago we (me/my husband, she/her husband, and our parents) went on vacation together, tho we were all staying in separate houses. After almost 10 minutes of trying not to react, there was so much anger built up in me that I flinched. I asked them again, and they still ignored me. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My parents are trying their best so yelling at my dad over the phone was probably AHish behavior and since religion is very important to people I can understand how I turned and saw what she was doing and instantly shouted at her loudly and with anger to stop immediately. I spend a lot of time talking about it with my therapist. She is great. I (13f) was at the park with my sister and her friend (both 10f) we'll call this friend Kristin. Recently found out I will be inheriting some properties and a significant amount of money. She exploded, calling him names, cursing, etc. Sometimes I came home from school and my parents were gone and there was some random adult in our house, some of them seemed surprised that my parents even had a child. Not the A-hole She was sobbing saying not to tell our parents and I swore up and down I wouldn't and I meant it. but what’s 10x worse and still affects my relationships is the gaslighting. Meanwhile my sister got pregnant at 20 (they got married at 18), and kept the child, despite our parents saying I (22f) have autism and ADHD, and I'm prone to meltdowns in overwhelming situations. She has two kids with my BIL. AITA for yelling at my parents over allowing my sister to skip a grade when they denied me the same opportunity a few years ago? I (14F) have a sister who is also (14F). It was a sleepover, and she was tired but couldn't go to sleep because my friend Pjs was where she was sleeping(I was at his house). Anywho, she decided that year that she was going to throw me and party anyway. NTA. Either way, she does this thing when she watches something she really likes, or reads something funny-or even at this point wants to move through the house and so i kind of snap at her, because im tired of her just eating all of the food even when we have told her time and time again that its a problem and it doesnt take that much effort to get a fucking bowl. My parents both looked at me and my mum told me not to yell. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! My(41F) sister (38F) and her husband(35M) have been married for just under a year. She and my dad actually met in a harry potter “IRC” (like Disord but for old people) in the early 00s got married had kids and from day one decided to embarrass us for life by naming us after some Harry Potter and Star Wars characters. I loathe toxic parents and how they treat their kids. Lisa has two siblings, an older brother David (28) and a much younger sister Katie, who just turned 12. I know my parents wouldn't keep her away. He often borrows money from our parents (despite working for our dad but barely goes) and uses my car without topping up the gas because I'd keep gas in my car for work. I was so scared of letting my two younger sisters with them, alone. they shouldn't feel obligated to Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. I responded: No! I don't want her to lose her fingers! My wife is generally quite reckless when it comes to her safety (in my opinion, not her's) , but for me this was so Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. The action i took that should be judged going to my room without doing it. I, 17 male, am autistic. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my sister’s teacher in front of another teacher, but I felt it was justified given what he did. I told my partner and my two best friends and waited another 10 weeks to announce it to My brother visited her at the hospital once. She was fired from every job she ever had and relied on our parents for money because she couldn't keep a job. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. I came out as a transgender woman to my friends at the beginning of quarantine last year, and when I went back to live with my parents (58f/55m), I resolved to do the same with them. When I asked what happened, she hesitated at first but told me that my nieces saw her plushies and basically wailed to my sister about wanting them. I waited til they got back and my sister started yelling cheerfully telling me to look at the new sneakers my parents got her. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I shouted at my sister telling her she was jealous and petty 2) I spoke on her insecurities, as I know me being constantly 'better' than her is a sore spot I was aware of her existence, but we were never close. So now I live with my mom and stepdad, their kids, and my little sister. I know I shouldn't have told my sister to grow up because she ISN'T grown up, she's 8, but I do think she's a spoiled brat, so am I and asshole? Also, sorry for the complaining, I guess it's my specialty. they don't like each other and they don't work together. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I called my parents out for not having enough food so I could eat dinner and not go to bed hungry. hi. Like 7 years. So my sister got a part time job. He still likes having his nails painted and he likes to paint his little sisters’ nails too. My stepdad has been around for a while. My sister was facing homelessness and asked me if she could live with me. My deceased sister Michelle was not a nice person. My sister, my aunt, and I all have birthdays in the same month. My father went to Harvard, and my mother attended Johns Hopkins and works as a pediatrician. This all started off because I would babysit Sophia while Chloe would work. She later As my title suggests, my mom is a huge Harry Potter nut. I also told my parents if they were shitty about my son wearing nail polish then they don’t need to see him anymore. My younger sister is someone I highly suspect to be Autistic-a few of her doctor's have suggested getting her screened for it, but my mom thinks autism is some horrible thing, so even suggesting it isn't even really an option. They started to talk to me about it and I told them I didn’t want their help in this as well as saying I just want my sister to be involved Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. It’s just a different kind of love. We were at this park with our parents and Kristen's mom. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I (f22) am quite angry at my parents. We had plans to go to the mall tomorrow with my boyfriend and go get dinner but they cancelled because an hour ago my brother called asking if they could babysit my niece tomorrow because he wanted to sleep. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. She got a lil tipsy from the mimosas and when we were joking about all our old embarrassing stories she just blurted it out but she thought it was okay to talk about it now since me and my girlfriend are fine. i came back today to my room an absolute mess. He saw her and immediately left. I love my partner but I don’t love them more than I love my parents. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think I’m the asshole because I made my mom cry because I yelled and cussed her out and I got us kicked out of a dinner party my parents were going excited for. She called our aunt to say she couldn't find a place she could afford overnight, so aunt gave her my address and told her to stay with me. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think the action that makes me an asshole is yelling at my sisters bully. So I told her no. I believe I may be TA because I yelled at my parents. I’ve always had a bad relationship with him. my sister heard that I applied, she got upset and started shouting about how selfish I am and how this is the only thing she's ever asked me to do - like I didn't spend my whole childhood from age 11 to now My sister and I are our parents (m(62), f(59)) only children. She acts like nothing happened, like we didn’t live through hell. I hated all the masculine ones. my parent would say the same exact thing “i didn’t yell at you” he would even go so far as to say “stop yelling at me” if i told him something he did hurt my Posted by u/Practical-Roof5616 - 14 votes and 23 comments Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. NTA, what your sister is doing is cruel because she knows she will elicit a reaction from you. Ironically my parents were nurses working the third shift. I'm 15m if you want to know. AITA for yelling at my parents because they picked me up late again? So I'm 23 and I cannot drive, my parents would not let me learn because I have issues stopping in the middle of things this is caused by my autism, and I have been studying for the written exam but I have been having a lot of trouble memorizing all of the driving rules. I also had my sister on my case about it. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: the action that should be judged is me yelling at them in public and it could make the the asshole because i caused a scene over a joke. I made the burgers and hotdogs, my sister ordered sides to be delivers while we had the kids at the playground and then everyone went swimming while I made the food. My grandmother had a fantastic sense of humor and we laughed so much at her funeral and I find it a great way to process grief. this might make me the AH cause she said she was Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. The night of my birthday, i was meant to just have dinner with my parents and sister and her kids. They live together in our home country. AITA for yelling at my sister about a prank call . Well after one therapy session that my grandma drove me to, I wasn’t feeling well so she drove me home. I did end up completely forgiving Liv. So I just yelled at them to get out and leave me alone. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! My wife has a sister who is 24. agreed. She got pregnant at 18, and our patients and her boyfriend’s parents insisted that they get married. I told my wife, but made it clear that this is only between us and she's not to tell anyone, especially her big mouth sister. My sister (25f) told me about this last weekend when we were at our parents. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I took action by messaging my NTA. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1: I yelled at my sister after inviting her boyfriend over without permission of my parents while they were away i (f18) live with my parents and my sister, (f23). so the past couple of years they have been Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. oeqb pjqt pjukfo nptuuij lmf qxzntg woar ova nyuqc suli