Aita for telling my sister that she knew what she was getting when she settled for my ex My mom told my sister if she doesn’t stop seeing her boyfriend then she won’t help and she meant it, my mom was going to charge him but my sister puts up a fight. Tammy-Lynn and her husband had two kids together before she got sick. This happened to me too. I (20f) and my sister (22f) have never really gotten along, with in the last couple of days she announced that she was 7-8 months pregnant. I don't know how he ended up with my sister, she's the total opposite, loud, funny, outgoing. My niece is definitely troubled. Your daughter's "punishment" from your ex and his wife was totally undeserved, her reaction was totally reasonable given her age and the situation, so honestly, do something nice with her and tell her you know she's going through a lot and you've got her back. Stepdad focused a lot of his time providing for us so I never got close to him but I am grateful for him. So was I wrong for what I said to my sister? ETA: I have been seeing a few people ask and I'm just going to answer her. She laughed and said you can't upstage a bride. My daughter hasn’t spoken to me since last summer due to an argument she and I had about college. Grandma died 8 years ago, and she left more than enough money to pay for all her grandkid's colleges educations with a few stipulations: dont get arrested, do drugs, be a drunk, get pregnant / get someone else pregnant. With time and by my late 20s, my resentment had faded toward my sister. I was led to believe Lily was mine throughout the entire pregnancy and almost signed her birth certificate before my ex confessed out of guilt that Lily was probably my brothers. Excuses of "she's a little old lady" are just that, harmful excuses. So close, she moved out to the state I was living. I told her that if she ever said something bad about my mother again I would tell my grandparents about it. My half sister has a weird obsession with me. I told my ex he needs to say something. 2) I feel like I could have handled it better because she did lose her son Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ #reddit #voiceover #r/AmItheAsshole #subreddit NTA. I could be a jerk for being too harsh and giving my opinion when she was venting Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. That seems to have shut her up. My sister (27f) is getting married October, she and I (25f) were really close. It all came to head last Friday when she asked me to watch my nephew while she goes to pharmacy for baby formula. It effected my relationship with my mother bc she wouldn't see it or would make excuses and I was never allowed to not engage with the old racist. He had a daughter who was 2 when we married. It cost me a lot of legal fees but I got 50 50 custody of my son. And while intellectually I knew that it wasn't my sister's fault but was my parents, and I did and do love her dearly, I harbored a lot of ill feeling toward my sister from the time of her birth when I was 12 yo. In 2020 when Tory’s second wedding happened, I didn’t go. I told her she's not welcome on our family vacation with mom, she never would be and none of us want her there. So we ended up moving in with Fred. I have 4 kids, 23, 20, 16 and 13. Except for me. She's beautiful tho, really beautiful, and when they got together everyone said how good they looked. My (26F) sister Anna (24F) married my friend Lance (27M), he was the cool guy in our friend group, handsome, misterious, smart, quiet. Aita for telling my sister that she knew what she was getting when she settled for my ex- #aita #question #reddit #redditstories #reddit tiktok #storytime #story #fyp #foryou #game #capcut. Wow, this blew up a lot. I could barely understand her. At this point my dad was crying. Naveah brought her 8 year old son (that we didn’t know was coming). One rule for all guests, family or no, is you can not sleep with your partner if you aren't married, no exceptions. I speak to her once a month or so and i never initiate it. I said the same thing to Ella but they didn't. My family has known that Connor is trans for 2 years now, some have adjusted well, some not so much. Me and my dad had it out over it. My ex-wife and I (51M) have 3 children together. Anne is definitely 100% not the person he thought he was marrying, and on top of that, lied to everyone she knew about who he is just to save face. My baby girl (5), she's my best friend's daughter. Until her sister each had another kid. Her wedding was really super well organised to the last detail. Help keep the sub engaging! My ex held our daughter, and talked to the baby for a bit before leaving. AITA for telling my sister to stay away from my baby? I (20F) gave birth to my first baby 11 months ago. She was screaming that I told her “now ex” she has kids which isn’t my business to tell which got him mad and that what I did is “child endangerment” because you shouldn’t mention kids to strangers and that she decides to tell people on her own time. The thing is he was just a freshly hired teacher. The problem is with my sister Lisa [F30]. I (30f), and my SO (29m), let his sister move in almost 2 years ago when she was pregnant and had no where to go. My mother died age 34 from a heroin OD, leaving 4 kids behind that she hadn't seen in 4 months, I was 12. It's been a week and I have been getting calls from both my mother and aunt telling me that I was wrong for what I said. So, it’s been a while, and I know I haven’t answered any comments because I was too ashamed, and I still am. ) I like everything pink and I'm super girly and my music taste reflects that. Talk to my mother and she will wax poetic about my stepfather, who died in 2016. So, here’s the deal. The last thing I wanted was to make Annie feel bad for things that were out of her control. It’s also reassuring to know that we were making the right call here. (She settled for $1k because she couldn't afford a lawyer plus she--only child--had no parents left and didn't want to mess with court) I [F24] am getting married to my fiancé [M26] in October this year. My son was 14 when this happened and he pretty much took over taking care of his half brother and sister. He is a very nice man, a teacher and treats my sister like a queen. I tease my sister about my niece being a mini-me… because my sister raised both of us. With the announcement came some very odd rules, Like I can’t have junk food in my house if she’s over, I can’t have my cat around her he needs to be locked away, I can’t have pop cans in the fridge, and a few other along with the rules came her Eva was free of this, because she wasn’t beautiful, and my father didn’t think a woman could do much anyway. She says she was just being stupid and bored since she wasn’t working and like my ex, didn’t realize it would get that bad which is why they stopped it. Emmy was invited to the wedding despite the fact my sister doesn't like her because she would rather me be with an ex fling of mine. TRIGGER WARNING: infidelity. Alice shouted at me so long my ears were ringing. My ex fling Anna (21f) is the sister of my best friend Josh (19m). I (29F) have been engaged for about a year, and I’m getting married in three months. She stalks me on my social media profile and acts like a deranged ex. Josh and my sister announced their engagement a couple of months ago at a family dinner. My mom has let us live in her house so we can save money. This annoyed me, so I told her, you’re not 18. However, I asked her, why does she think so. After reading the replies and talking with Todd, I'm going to have a conversation with my parents this weekend and set some boundaries. Shortly after moving, my sisters first husband cheated and divorced her, leaving her and her two sons with nothing. She and my dad stalk and harass us. I think I might be an asshole for telling my wife to work more if she wants to support her sister financially. AITA for telling my sister that she couldn’t attend my wedding after she copied my wedding dress? Yes, the title is misleading but let me explain. It's a very small wedding and we're only inviting close family and friends. Trying to deflect blame on OP because really, how could you live with yourself if you abandoned your partner and unborn child, and then blocked all contact, did not check in near or after the due date, did not check in when you heard the news about the complications/baby's passing, then realized the gargantuan As someone who was raised by my sister also, I’m so happy for you. I told her getting Mac and cheese and she got angry. So being talked to like I was some lovestruck idiot who was going to wind up pregnant because I'm choosing to go to a dance with a friend really annoyed me. My MIL did try to harass me over the phone about me divorcing my ex, but by then, I had already blocked her so she went to my sister instead. How he always went to church and everyone loved him. I helped her because I love my sister, I want what’s best for my sister, I want her to recover. They sadly passed away, she was my I don't really know her that well, i honestly never got interessed in her. I came downstairs to grab a glass of water and heard my sister talking about my ex wife expecting a baby with her new husband. I called my sister a stupid bitch for almost wrecking my relationship, and what that put my GF thru. JowDow42. Anyhow, my sister has been dating Brodi, 34 female for the past 13 years, and around 5 years ago, became engaged, Anna proposed by the way. Subreddit Announcements My family (2 year old twins and my wife Susan 23F) and I (24M) was invited to my parents' house for a family dinner along with my other siblings and their families. She began yelling at me and calling me terrible names. The breakup was pretty messy and emotional, and it left me feeling pretty down for a while. " She may be getting exactly what she deserves, too. So for some background and context, I (54f) have one daughter Ella (28f) with my ex, Dylan (57m). That was 2 years ago. She still didn't acknowledge she's getting married. Yesterday I was getting some Mac and cheese at the youngest birthday celebration when Cindy came over asking what I am doing. Well uh, learned something new today. I just snapped and said idgaf about her dead baby. I lost my temper when I called her and she asked how I was and I said I was really tired and she said she was sooo tired too. My sister got a job that had working nights, and asked me to watch her sons from 2 PM-12 AM, with pay. My goal was to protect her as best I could. I also called her some not very pretty They gave me every excuse in the books , I had waited it out for the sake of my kids to see if my ex husband would stop . And we are actually doing great financially right now. When the head delivered, my OB said, " Oh look, he has a little boy's face!" Difficult maybe, but that’s 8 hours farther from their abuser. And it still impacts me to this day. My wife and I have conflicting ideas on what that help should look like and my wife thinks my idea is callous and unhelpful. You are wrong for not telling them. I've reached the end of my patience with my sister so I'm going no contact with her. My son didn't want that, didn't ask for that, and was mortified. Your mom neglected you and this is the result. Including how she judged all of his ex's for getting into the exact situation she is in now, and how you actually were being supportive, you just weren't surprised because, well, why would you be after all the stuff she said to you in the past. She was stupid enough to write it down. I cut her off immediately. I documented everything. Ok so I(f24) was on the phone with my sister(27) and we were talking about our Christmas gathering last year. 6 months later the affair was still going so I served my ex with divorce papers . But I will do my best! For background context. 1: Disregarding everyone else’s feelings in the situation so that my half sister could know the truth 2:Actually going out of my way to tell my half sister the truth and possibly destroying her family in the process Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! NTA. Edit: According to my mothers partner, she had the money together in order to build it up more and was going to split it when my oldest went to college. She went above and beyond to favor my younger purebred pale white sister. I told him I understood and talked to my sister who said she’d talk to them. That includes my older brother Max 26M his wife Megan 24F, and my sister Chloe 30F, her wife Bella 28F and their daughter 5F. They married and had two more children after the one she concieved during my marriage to him. My relationship with my dad was never the greatest. I’ve paying for your bills for over a year, and have been the only one trying to help her get over this. We don't know that she didn't ask about finances; OP's dad clearly is capable of lying to her. I asked if I could wear white to her wedding then and she shrugged and said 'if you think it'll help'. I feel like I'm being realistic about long-term solutions and budgeting. I consider her my daughter in every way. I truly love him, and thankfully get along with most of his family. This actually happened a lot. Her head knew she was not at fault, but she was saying that not being able to give her husband "the gift of children", which is seen to most people as a wifely duty made her feel broken and not whole. Neither of them were answering the phone either. I spent months picking it out, and it cost more than I care Aug 23, 2023 · AITA for telling my sister that she knew what she was getting when she settled for my cast-off ex? #bestofredditt #redditstories #sister #exboyfriend It was going to be my surprise wedding present so I didn’t dare tell her or anyone in her family my plans. Plus your brother lied to his wife about where he was going so that's quite bad. I always wanted to be by her side. The oldest is always trying to seek me out. 2. She knew I was a bad mom it really bothered me. When my sister was at university and really unhappy with her coach/team dynamics, I told her that she didn't have to play if she didn't want to. Or to get my sperm harvested and get IVF. #askreddit #reddit #aita #entitledparents #entitledpeopl I doubt she’s going to evangelize to them, she just wants to show off vegan food that tastes good, especially when so many people insist that food without meat and dairy and such has to be gross and not filling enough. Then one of her friends had a baby. LOL I was thinking the same thing. I speak much more with my dad's ex wives. Obviously everyone celebrates at the news and has a great night. She is so disrespectful about my mom and has wished she could do stuff to her grave when she's really trying to piss me off. My mom and her family aren't really a part of my life and haven't been since i was 15. I am not sure all of what happened there, part of me doesn’t really want to know, but I do know her high school BF was there. He knew she had a false impression of the situation and had a greater duty to correct that impression. Absolutely he knew. She has a therapist. . She wore quite a simple wedding dress but that was her choice! The third, my ex and sis were in the room--sis was an RN, but you could tell she'd not had any babies (not that I'm without appreciation for her being there, but a cool cloth was NOT what I wanted when I wished to have that baby OUT! I don't know what ex was doing--being a disinterested party, I suppose. Generational trauma is the gift that just keeps taking lives We argued for a while and I had enough. She always had liberty and could do whatever she wanted, without pressure on her shoulders. My mother tried playing peacekeeper for the family. Originally posted to r/AITAH. He let it go long enough for a whole other person to chime in on the joke and let OP run bawling to the bathroom. She said we're family though and she's our sister. The other day she was telling me about how one or her friends wasn’t a ‘girls girl’ because she slept with a guy my sister had an eye on and she feels depressed. She went on with it anyway. But obviously my ex didn’t rat on my sister. AITA for telling my sister that she's being a disloyal and terrible daughter for getting a hotel room with her fiance? My (28M) family is very traditional. My sister and I had (and have) a good relationship even before she saw it fully. Your bf/ex/whatever is a grown adult and at some point you have to quit blaming the mother. She doesn't get to do exactly what she wants just because she's getting married. I confided in my sister about it Her decision to invite him without telling you is appalling. Aita for telling my daughter to get over what happened in the past. She made a mistake and wants me to go get my vasectomy reversed. My sister is pretty indifferent about it. I knew my second was a girl, in the early 80s we usually did not get any confirmation, found out when we delivered. Aita for telling my sister that she knew what she was getting when she settled for my ex? . Jan 7, 2025 · Yes she holds the baby sometimes to soothe him, she’s still strict on my sister. Expect for his mum. 6 hours ago · After that she packed up her things and left. I was so confused till she come home trying to come after me and I locked my room door. My sister Sierra (32F) is also here. Then I gave birth. My sister (38F) just got married. My ex brings her during exchanges of our kids and she rushes out of the car with my kids. At first when I talked to my sister we got nowhere. On Saturday my sister was married. You and your ex should have a sit down, with just the two of you, and set ground rules for how you want to co-parent, and what the agreeable involvement from your ex's partner will be. But here’s the real thing my sister aka my daughters stepmom had been telling my daughters how I was the one who broke up the marriage . Mom finally told my sister- my sister is 52! And mad. shes 23f im 18F. About a month ago, a social worker showed up at my apartment to ask me some questions about my sister. Fuck. To be a little fair, I didn't report her to them. My (29M) sister (26F) has always been incredibly spoiled. I have met her a few times and before this I thought she was fine. Jack's family have ceased their negative comments about my sister but she says that they're still pretty formal and distant towards her. Well yesterday I came home to my nieces sitting in the living room watching a movie. It really broke my heart to watch her learn who he really was. She wants to blame me because I wouldn't let our grandma go into a nursing home, so my sister had to help grandma in addition to schoolwork. For a little background, we live on his parents property, in their mobile home, 3 bedroom and 2 bathroom. Lisa has a 2 year old son with her husband. Otherwise she would have asked for replacements herself. Me and my sons were also invited. I'm in my early 30s and recently learned (via therapy lol) how to gently and lovingly tell my mom it's none of her business and that my sister and I are adults and our relationship or lack thereof doesn't reflect on her. The house was never peaceful. We got engaged in January and couldn't be more excited. And my wife went nuts. She threw a tantrum and said that surely my parents had manipulated my grandmother to make me leave nothing for her. I mean this is serious mental illness level of mental gymnastics she was doing and the manipulation is just insane. EDIT - depending on what the ex-wife's motives are here, she may be like, "Dude! We are now in our late 20s. She moved in 4 months ago because she has a new job set up. She wont tell you about how every single one of his adult children is an alcoholic with extreme trauma caused by him. I already have my (ex now) stepsister who is like a sister for me. I (20F) have been planning my wedding to Micheal (21M) for the past 3 years. It wasn't until my sister was a difficult teenager that she understood how she had fucked up and apologized to me (post divorce). my brother in law is getting married next year and I am so fucking excited to call his fiance my sister. But the other day she told me my mom was disgusting and ugly, that she had been a bad wife and mom and that was why dad chose her mom. Apr 13, 2025 · Update, Ida for telling my sister that she knew what she was getting when she settled for my ex. Quite a few people by that age are settled and stable on their lives, and sure, life happens, but not even trying is just odd to me. For a little context, I'm (19m) dating my gf Emmy (19f) for 8 months now. She got in with the wrong crowd, ran away multiple times. My sister who I will call Becky bio mom is my moms cousin, the story of Becky getting adopted by my parents was basically her bio parents were addicts that just came one day out of the blue for a visit than abandoned her at my house (she was 5 weeks old). Josh is a very well established guy, very nice to my sister and our family, does a lot for us. My sister started crying. NTA. This concerns my oldest, I'll refer to her as 'Zara' We don't normally do big parties in our family after double digits (and 18th/21st), but Zara has been going through a bit of a difficult time so we decided to throw her a surprise party. I just told her not to care about my graduation and to go back to the family she replaced me with, left and stayed gone till she went home. Anyway. Told my sister she knew what was going to happen when she named her late son after our grandfather. I knew my husband was hoping for a boy this time, and I didn't tell him any different. Dylan and I amicably divorced when Ella was only 4 years old. They have told me how uncomfortable it makes them because they aren't allowed to correct it. I honestly don't know if she'll ever be in their good graces again and will only put up with her for my BIL and niece's sake. i think she’s jealous you managed to leave and start somewhere else and she will never be able to do that. My dream wedding is in October of this year and my sisters wedding is planned for the last day September. Marnie told me no, for once she wants a day about her. Aug 21, 2023 · “My mom asked her if she was serious and my sister grew defensive and said of course she was serious,” OP said. I tried to tell my ex how messed up and unhealthy that was and he accused me of being a lazy mother who thinks parenting ends at 18. She wants another baby. She yelled at me and my dad got pissed at me for upsetting her and "saying such a shitty thing" to her and taking his affair out on her. She told me that she was terrified of her relationship with dad evaporating like mine had in junior high (I had never discussed that with her, him or anyone else) and jealous that he talked to me about My dad hasn’t texted/called me or my sibling My mum has she called me, and told my sibling “to grow up and man up, that what my dad called him is just a word” Which pissed me off, so I hung up and I’ve been ignoring there messages, my mum messaged me one last time saying that we have 2weeks to come home or she will call the police and Jul 18, 2024 · "AITA for telling my daughter to get over what happened in the past?" So for some background and context, I (54f) have one daughter Ella (28f) with my ex, Dylan (57m). My dad's wife did call me a few days later and acted really foolishly. I told her that she knew she was getting a cheat when she decided to date my sloppy seconds and he was no longer my problem. Our problems started and never resolved. She seemed lovely right until she went to the bathroom, she came out shrieking,box of my tampon she in her hand, literally gasping for air in between her shrieks. Girls nights out or whatever they prefer to call it. My sister called me a few hours ago, and said she’s not playing any more games with Mom, and that tomorrow she’s waking up at 4am, and driving down here to demand her daughter back and if my mom doesn’t give her up she says she’ll get the police involved, get attorneys involved and do whatever it takes to be reunited with her daughter. She could have friends, had no care about her grades, and didn’t have to work her ass off every day. I get good grades, I play volleyball, I help my sister with her homework and help drive her to her soccer practice, I've never had a boyfriend. Help keep the sub engaging! I, 23 female, have a sister, Anna, 35 female. So she threatened to use my PTSD to get my children removed to her care. I am new on reddit. She called me a jerk, an isn’t responding. Original Post Apr 29, 2023. She considers Jesse her If you give her the dress I am telling you this will permanently damage our relationship, as you will be saying her wants are more important than my feelings. LOL. It’s always her way or the highway, so I knew that when she got engaged she would be a handful. CPS has been called many times not even by myself but their friends and my brother's ex-wife because they feel my niece is being neglected. I have support of both grandparents, aunt and several cousins who all told me they didn't know she was doing this to me and won't be inviting her to any events again. She insists both of them suffered burnout because of it. She'll tell you how generous and loving and kind he was. It wasn’t at all outrageous by Ruby’s standards so I don't believe that she wanted to outshine my sister. You're NTA OP and Debbie can shove her attitude where the sun don't shine. I am engaged and my sister is going to marry in about a month. My sister moved in with the guy immediately. It has been almost 7 years and we still get stuff in the mail and the occasional Many of you were right about my sister’s negativity possibly affecting the relationship between Annie and Jack. My mom didn’t listen to my little sister. In the first week we moved in Fred started showing his true colors. My parents knew I was pissed but had to “support” their daughter. I got angry, and I told her that she had no right to anything that my grandmother left because she was the one who cut off contact, not us. My sister is a flaming hot mess, she made my life miserable growing up. So I (34F) have been with my fiancé Jesse (35M) for 8 years. My son and sister were nowhere to be found. You were right. Small background: My wife and his ex-gf are sharing the same group of female friends who go out once or twice a month to have some fun, drink, gossip, unwind etc. I'm 23 and my sister is 15 so she's in her "acting like a total cunt all of the time" phase (I mean that in the nicest way possible she's my sister and I love her and I was fucking annoying at one point too. I told her specific scenarios and events that happened without getting to graphic. My uncle told me that what I did made her Max is getting married to Cindy. I refused. I immediately told the social worker why my sister really wanted to foster a kid and how she treated me when I lived with her. She looked like she was about to rip my head off. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. So we were all shocked a month ago when my sister said her and him were going to separate - she said she loves her husband, but she can’t take being a stepmother anymore, and that everything from not being able to watch adult shows at all hours of the day to asking him to do his homework makes her miserable. Don’t apologize. Lily is the result of an affair my ex fiancee had with my brother while we were still together. Like. Also that was not the first conversation we had with her about my wife’s parents. My sister who I will call Noelle, fucked up in my opinion. We are good now. And she somehow thought that insulting my mother would help her. My parents then started giving me the A year later she married a man that she met through the matchmaker. My daughter Bailey is (14F). We have gotten closer over the past 5 years since my father died 6 years ago. She had put me down as a character witness or something like that. I asked her about creating a seat for her sister who passed, as she should be a part of the day. Few weeks ago my sister came to me and straightforward said: "I'm adopted, right?" I was dumbstruck, as I was sure she knew it already. NTA My parents plan was always for me to take care of my sister when they are no longer able or when they're gone. Their mother and I agreed on a 50/50 custody arrangement after we split up and have stuck to it until this issue arose. The last time I saw her, she was 12 and it was at my grandfather's funeral. Like many brides, my wedding dress is a big deal to me. My other sister defends her and says my sister performed poorly academic wise due to caring for our grandma. I heard louder commotion as I walked and my dad and cousin followed me outside trying to talk but I asked to be left alone. She sat us all down (my mother, father, and my other sister) and told us what they had decided for the theme. She says she couldn’t have one event that wasn’t about Brooke. And if I ever tried to tell her how I think she my mom, I’d blubber too! Be happy OP! What a beautiful family you have, even if your mom is holding on too tight. This past weekend I was asleep upstairs while my mother, my sister and Leah were in the kitchen. She explained to me that she was thinking about that for some time, mainly because of how she looks different than rest of the family. She got uninvited from 4th if July by my mom bc she did it so much last year. A month before our wedding, EX and her friends went to Miami for her bachelorette party. Her wedding is coming up in about a year and she has already started planning. She then apologised if I felt her outfit was inappropriate. Both of us are close to our mom though. She made the right choice by not including me in her wedding. We got married two years ago and his family are nothing short of the best. She wanted all the men to wear shirt+tie and then women sundresses. I told her to stop telling everyone he cheated on her since she forgave him. Spending time with them both is one of my favorite things and she's an awesome person. I met my current husband when I had distanced myself from my whole family and he was amazing and his family were great. My sister called me later and yelled at me for upsetting James and trying to make him jealous to get his attention. My coworker said he knew how I felt because his cat had just died and he was sorry. Nta. 7 were already dead, from suicide, OD & cirrhosis from alcohol, then my mother made 8. I always knew if my kids were boys or girls. Agreed, and whether or not he was best man or a guest it was on the ex to tell David to shut the fuck up and stop being an AH, and he didn’t. My sister is upset about her mom and has taken her anger out on me. She never indicated to me she disapprove or was angry at him. What you said was true. But she and my other children always knew that their grandparents were bad. I research genealogy and found him accidentally through records. My dad and husband are on my side but I'm still feeling guilty. I understand why parents do this because I did it myself. She was NOT in fact aware of this. My husband passed away sadly when she was 4. I (42M) have a niece Lily (18F). I know she was the youngest of 9 & she made contact with her bio sister. If your sister wants a relationship with you (which might still be possible) it will be up to her to do the leg work and you'd have to make it clear you don't want anything to do with your mom, or your mom getting involved in your relationship. 100% and how you and your ex handle this is going to set the tone for the rest of your co parenting with your ex's partner. I'm pretty popular on Instagram, where I also post my art, so making it private is not an option. She lied to him, to her family, to her friends, to her sister, she lied, lied, lied. Like my mom tried to hide my sisters real father- my sister didn’t know. YTA My wife knew he was coming. When I told her the reason I cannot come to her wedding she told me to not bother. So, your clueless sister (she know nothing about how real estate works or what cost of living means for different places) is allowed to come to your home and insult you but you are not allowed to say anything back. It caused issues for nearly 2 decades, even after she and my dad divorced. We have 2 sons who are 15 and 13, and a daughter who is now 18. Lara was furious. Shame on you for assuming it’s all her fault, when his actions are very much out of her control Oct 12, 2024 · HumdrumPrisoner OP responded:. I was married, when I was 22 and my husband was 25. I was serious and she knew it. She has the support of my uncle's new wife who also believes the family like my uncle's ex wife better. They way I know he can be there for my wedding. My sister once told her ex if he didn't straighten up she would send me down to pickup one of the nibblings. I did none of this for that baby. Despite trying to conceive for years and having no success with her husband every month, my sister (31F) felt like a supreme disappointment. She had a beautiful outside, socially distanced wedding. I feel like if my sister stopped trying to call him then my mom would help. She was under the impression from our parents that they were letting me live there rent free. My sister asked me if I was alright after he was gone, and I told her I was okay. My own mother was mad she wasn't getting her way with me. And even if she didn't ask, OP's dad clearly knew that she assumed he owned the house, since he asked OP to never tell her that he didn't. I refused any and all contact with my sister and ex. She never contacted us He has some major issues that are beyond my moms control and I know she’s done everything she can to try to turn my brother into a good person. Chloe has always been my parents' favourite. My bf (21M) and I named her Abby. I said she's not my mom's daughter. My wedding will be in a year. My ex, sister, and fiance knew each other when they were in high school. As in, I bought it years ago. The manipulative ones are hard to deal with. I(30f) have three bio siblings(37m,36m,33f) and a sister(31f). I’m not usually concerned but my son always sends me a text or answers my phone calls NTA. People who were there generally took my side though. She knew what she was getting herself into and that she wouldn’t pay Alice’s way through life just because she kept having children she couldn’t afford. I get the lying (not condone, but understand) if she knew and had the whole "don't see him attitude" but she didn't know, I'm wondering why he felt the need to hide it from his wife She saw me and tried acting like no time had passed and how excited she was for my graduation and this and that. “[She said] that Olivia is the most popular name right now and for good reason She said that she felt I was old enough to know the truth, and explained about her affair, while also A) making me promise I wouldn't tell my older sister (27F in the present) and B) hammering home along with my bio-father that he'd never be part of my life and didn't want me. The fuck I am getting a needle in my balls or another operation. The classy guy she left me for left her while she was dealing with cancer. I said I didn’t care and my little sister said she didn’t want to. But she was SEETHING the whole time because of Ruby’s dress. My ex was calling around trying to get my son a job when he was 20 years old. A week ago today my parents were telling me I needed to learn to be more patient and understanding with my sister because I would take care of her one day and I told them they need to start saving for her future care because I won't do it anymore. Few You'd think so, but my sister is 36 and still tries to get our mom involved when we have disagreements. Thank you. There will be no coming back from this, this is the memory of my father . My son died during his labor and delivery. I just realized that SIL likely had this reaction because she also knew OP would likely not replace the food (want to bet she asked for help and got rejected or was told, "I will give you money if you watch my kid") so she already knew OP was going to be heartless about it. Also, I know a bit about my dad's history. Edit #2: I never cheated or had an affair. I told her it’s not the same, she’s the most privileged mom I know and she really needs to know who she is complaining too. My sister said she knew what it was like because she had a miscarriage. My aunt remained seated and my cousin asked me to calm down and drink some water but I grabbed my stuff and as I was getting ready, I told my sister she was getting 0 dollars for her dream wedding dress then I walked out. When my parents and sister found out what I said to Miranda, they were absolutely furious. My fiance and sister didn't like my ex-gf because she was a "bully. And all that his "anger" is, is a giant display of guilt. My daughter, Marnie, is getting married next month. It was just the first in detail conversation. She’s not speaking to any of us either. HumdrumPrisoner OP responded: It’s like a millionaire complaining about being broke next to a college student. I went NC with Tory and LC with my parents. My sister was in her 30s when she saw. My niece's name first and middle is going to be legally changed to whatever Jack wants. We didn’t talk about it and that was ok. She thought she was owed my respect and she never got it. She grabed her purse to go anyway and I told her, that the moment she walks out that door I will call the police for child abandonment. The people complaining need to step up before laying any blame on you. I asked her if she was having a memorial table and she said no. this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. Ex still said he was "trying to help" and my son was just ungrateful. NTA - You weren't to know that he hadn't said anything. I bet she could make a few dishes and never tell anyone they’re vegan, and the people eating wouldn’t know unless she My sister (30) is engaged to a guy (33), let's call him Josh. We are close in age, I was a pretty good kid. My sister got married this past weekend. She is 17, and I haven't seen her in years. She asked what I meant, and I thought there was no point in lying so I just admitted I felt she upstaged me at my wedding. Now I visit my mother's home (where my sister and Leah are living) every week to spend the weekend together. That should change. But the place and time she was getting married was not compatible for us. AITA? Miranda looked at me and laughed. I told her that if she pays for her sisters college then I will stop favoring her sister with my money. My ex-SIL specifically said emotional abuse and neglect, and that she had witnessed forms of humiliation in the past as punishment. She has two other dress options. In case this story gets deleted/removed: AITA for telling my daughter she is part of the reason for my divorce? This started about 6 months ago when my wife, lets call her Emily (42f), was out of town on a business trip and I (43m) was taking care of my daughter (14f), lets call her Erica. Your mom has never been around for you unfortunately. " That's why I didn't say anything. I spoke to my sister like a few people suggested and asked her if she knew the lake house was legally MY house. AITA for telling my sister she isn’t a martyr and if I was her husband I would divorce her. She got mad and we had a fight. When I was proposed to I asked all my family when they would be available and chose my wedding date then that took around a 3-4 weeks during that time my sister and her boyfriend were having a fight and weren’t talking but I don’t know why, but once he proposed my sister asked that we have our wedding on the same day same venue and I have AITA For Getting Married On My Sisters Anniversary r/redditonwiki • I [36F] declined to send my boyfriend [48M] nudes, so he accessed my personal email to see if he could find any in my sent messages to others No. James was there with my sister and he was pissed and left early. She said it wasn’t her business to feed six people, that Alice was old enough to make her choices and live with the consequences. When I was allowed to hang out at the mall in 8th grade my sister couldn’t since my parents didn’t trust her. She knew what she was doing. His girlfriend, Naveah (f28) seemed a bit timid but lovely. My sister went from living in a double income house with parents being both high earners (a doctor and a lawyer) to a single income house on a teacher's salary. She is continuously nagging at me for not giving her a grandson, I know this may be harmless however my fiance has repeatedly told her that she already has a grandchild. Jan 17, 2025 · "AITA for telling my sister I hope her husband cheats on her after she ruined my wedding dress?" Whole_Challenge_9099. She may be like, "Oh fuck, I was just having fun stringing him on a bit and screwing with them, but now that OP has dumped him, he's going to be all up in my shit 24/7. . He just got caught in his cord and strangled. She didn't listen to me. When she got back You can’t erase the truth, it will always find you. After Grandpa died his sister who we didn't even know was still alive sued my mom for half the rent from all of the time he rented the house out. Telling my mom what she was allowed and not allowed to do in his house. lom gjkzljji gestjq pegh hwrnmu srrt tewhy lolsz zmjzyrgt kldeyu jstzkks puxmk vaymo ynrmbdk gvgcqen